Waiting Where the Light Goes

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If in my last post I was fielding gentle riots inside my thoughts, this one finds me with absolute ants in my pants. Not presently, that is … the turbulence in my mind has soothed itself to a sort of truce between tranquility and unrest. But this last day or two, oh my stars. There’s a wonderful word that originated in the Italian neighborhoods in New York City and blossomed outward into my part of the state in the 1980s, which my mom picked up on and used on my brother and I with frequency. “You’re giving me agita,” she’d say when we were being particularly troublemaking or otherwise childlike. Agita comes from the Italian word acido, meaning heartburn, but New Yorkers used it to mean anxiety, agitation, or stress. And that’s what I had been feeling: a whole heapin’ helping of agita. Suffice it to say, the center could not hold for long. I either had to deal with it, or be driven crazy.

Something I’ve practiced for many years, though not as consistently as I’d like, is meditation. Having had little luck with mantras, my most blissful experience with it is lying in darkness, white noise or ambient music filling my mind, just focusing on my breathing. Inhale for 7 counts, exhale for 5 … always an unbalanced rhythm to keep my mind from wandering too far. So I spent some time meditating in the early morning hours before getting up to work on this picture, and I noticed when I was trying to make my mind settle, that everything causing me agitation kept coming back to my perceived lack of time. And this is a tricky one, because time is finite; we can’t get more of it no matter how hard we try. But we can manage how we spend it, and that’s what my thoughts were gently trying to express as they urged, eased, and compelled me into quietude.

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“take the darkest hour, break it open
water to repair what we have broken
there’s something that you won’t show
waiting where the light goes
maybe anywhere the wind blows,
it’s all worth waiting for …”


Maitreya Body – Lara v3.5
Genesis Lab Head & Skin – Melissa
Damien Fate Eyelashes – FATELashes v2.0
Avi-Glam Eyes – Elysian Eyes (SummerNight) New Release @ Cosmopolitan, through July 16th *
Exile Hair – Wisteria (Fifty Linden Friday HUD)

Style & Pose

Maxi Gossamer Jewelry – Boho Bliss Tassel-Tastic Necklace (Short 1)
TETRA Dress – Sahara Dress (Maitreya HUD) New Release @ Uber, through July 23rd *
Imeka Pose – Loli Pose 7

Destination & Inspiration

✈ Sights: The Trace
🎧 Sounds: Toad the Wet Sprocket – Windmills

Toward the end of meditation, I started to feel what I can only describe as a sensuous buzz, sort of ricocheting outward from my chest in all directions at once. And even though the lights were out and a sleep mask covered my eyes, I began to feel a kind of radiance and warmth, like sitting outside by the coals of a bonfire: close enough that you can still feel the heat, and be hypnotized by the crimson and gold as it gives off its lingering glow. I felt broken open, like the charred log anchoring the blaze, its skin blistered and carbonized, cleaving open its insides at last. I didn’t feel renewed, more like succumbed– and it’s a feeling I actually cherish more. Because I think I’m finally coming to peace with the understanding that I can’t see, experience, or please everything and everyone all the time. The gamer inside me who chases the Completionist goal, who wants to turn in every quest and pick up every stone unturned, will needfully take an overdue rest. I won’t ever truly stop trying to Do All The Things; it goes against my nature. But I have to be more kind to myself when time isn’t on my side. The things that matter most, they’re like embers: they linger patiently, persistently, just waiting to be stirred once more. And those most important things, they’re all worth waiting for. ♡

13 thoughts on “Waiting Where the Light Goes

    themaravillas said:
    July 5, 2016 at 9:34 am

    Hope you’re feeling more yourself. :)

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      Ever Amaranthine responded:
      July 7, 2016 at 7:00 pm

      Awww, I’m getting there, Alexa! Thank you so much for your support, sweet lady. ♥


    Alex Danick said:
    July 5, 2016 at 9:39 am

    Gorgeous as usual, Ever…

    Liked by 1 person

    bitchcraft666 said:
    July 5, 2016 at 9:50 am

    You look extremely beautiful here Ever. I love your usage of light and the sunset. That Tetra dress is so gorgeous as well, I had to get the fatpack haha. Thanks for making my wordpress feed pretty! <3

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      Ever Amaranthine responded:
      July 7, 2016 at 7:03 pm

      That is such a lovely and kind thing to say, thank you so very much Ingrid! So happy you like the Tetra dress too, it was impossible choosing which color to shoot. They’re all so pretty! I hope you’re having a wonderful week, dear lady! ♥


    Moz Loordes said:
    July 7, 2016 at 3:03 am

    I have followed this meditation for some years – http://www.freemeditation.com – and after clearing out using the elements of water, light and earth – I now get a completely thoughtless meditation… still aware of everything… but no thoughts going on in my mind. It is a place of utter peace which I am eternally grateful for each day. It gives me better sleep, more energy, a pharmaceutical less method of pain control and more idea about what really goes on in the Universe. Love the post, by the way!

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      Ever Amaranthine responded:
      July 7, 2016 at 7:07 pm

      Oh wow, Moz! That website is sensational, thank you so much! Is it the Kundalini Awakening / Self-Realization meditation that you follow? The affirmations are beautiful, even just reading them gives my spirit a lift. I appreciate this resource so much; you’re such a kind soul! ♥


        Moz Loordes said:
        July 8, 2016 at 2:54 am

        It’s the only meditation that I’ve done which has been real to me – and I’ve done quite a few. You can actually feel what’s going on, it’s not just reading about such things, studying the spiritual texts or visualisation or anything like that… but a whole new way of being that was previously only attainable by doing great austerities over a lifetime, now it’s open to anyone who wants to try it! A great time to be born in – we have no idea <3

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    Nicol Kling said:
    July 7, 2016 at 4:31 am

    very beautiful

    Liked by 1 person

    unfinishedadventuresblog said:
    July 8, 2016 at 12:17 am

    You write beautifully and your pictures are a perfect extension to your words. About meditation: check out this guy, he has taught me to meditate, relax and be more Zen overall ♥

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